First Quarrel in the 5th year
| Saturday, October 29, 2005

Barely 4 days in our 5th year. We had an arguement.
We are suppose to watch transporter2 at Tampines Mall. From AMK to Tampines, it takes abt 1hr by bus. As WS is early, I suggest him to take the bus instead of the cab. And if need be halfway through the journey, hope on the cab. (Save $)

Well, end up in that journey, there's a huge jam and the clock is ticking to near movie screening time. In addition, waiting under the blazing hot sun with many people flagging for a cab. It's near impossible to catch the movie in time.

Frustrated, I end up being the idiot who gave the bright idea to save a few dollars in exchange for time. And spoil the mood for the day. But I didn't point a knife at him to take the bus instead of cab. Aren't his responsible to make his own decision? How did it end up to be my fault?Wouldn't you think about $20 for a cab fare from AMK to Tampines abit too extravagent? Why wouldn't he leave his house earlier and travel by MRT? Afterall it's most reliable (in terms of timing) public transport.

So, it's juz basically he's a stubborn , proud bull who blames me for everything that goes wrong. And I'm his stupid idiot who has very high A.I to recommend the cheapest way to travel.

Everything juz go so wrong. By the time he reached Tampines, he we already have missed the show. After a few arguements, he returned me the PSP, he left his own way (back to his pig sty). Whereas I'm there wandering around. Travelling around Tampines, a Bedok Housing Estate, Simei, back at Bedok (by bus). Well.. I'm unhappy, I juz love to travel, either by foot or bus transport to cool myself. At the same time, we quarrelled via SMS. Spiteful words were exchanged.

I manage to contact my gf elaine to meet up. Coincidentally, she happen to be at Bedok so we met up and had dinner + chatting away. Next we went to bugis. Sat down for some bubble tea and gossiping away. Finally I've cooled down.

So travelled to AMK by cab and with lots of hugs and forgiveness and help from keke (the rabbit), kimberlynn & maige (our hamsters)... we made up.

I hate to quarrel cos I awalys end up losing (cos I can never out-talk him) and always end up poorer.

But I still want to watch transporter2.

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twinkle winks
at |10:30 PM|

Our first memory into our 5th year together.
| Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Our first memory in our 5th year together.
Honestly, if you ask me how we spend our 1st anniversary or the 2nd or the 3rd, my answer is I only have a rough idea that it has makan, gifts, long romantic walk / talks, etc
But if you ask me about our quarrels & fights, I can dictate it down in details.

A food for thought: Why is it that human only remember the nightmares & horrible memories in great details but never the good ones? Why can't we hold on to these sweet memories & let go the bad ones? Must we always torture ourselves, leaving no good memories to savour?

Through this blog, I hope to write our story, an adventure, perhaps a crazy one.

What a day today. At around 4pm, the skies are not in a very good mood. Strong wind blowing, and a heavy downpour. I was like gosh.. am I to spend the evening constraint to some building and that's it? That's definitely juz a typical outing.

Luckily, the rain stopped and the air turn cool, what a lovely nite.

We decided to celebrate the evening & had Jumbo chili crabs. But it wasn't that fantastic. The sauce is not properly mixed, the crab wasn't fresh (soggy meat) and the fried man-tou shrank!! It juz tasted horrible, not the usual standard. Gosh, is the chef having a bad day too? Fortunately, we had mini scallop yam basket & Garlic stir-friend Kai Lan. (guess what, ws eat more vegetables this time. i'm so happy).

Took a train to Plaza Sing & had Gelare ice-cream. We talk and laugh and gossip. Time juz wait for no man and before we know it.. our ice-cream had melted & waffle turned soggy. Hmm.. seems like everything comes out soft & soggy.

After the soggy ice-cream waffle, we walk from Plaza Sing to Isetan Scotts. It seemed long, but the walk is over before you know. The walk is a connection between us. Enjoying the cool breeze, we juz stroll down orchard road and next board the bus home. Hmm.. sounds like a boring date.. but somehow as we mature, it's the connection & the time spent together that we treasure. Sounds so cliche? But it's true. Either that or we are juz getting old, not so chatty anymore :P

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twinkle winks
at |12:40 AM|

At the Beginning
| Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Today is our 4 years anniversary together. That's right 4 years have passed since 25 October 2001. We had our fair share of rollar-coaster rides. There were heated arguements and there were lovey dovey hugs and forgiveness. It seems like yesterday that we juz know each other.

As part of my anniversary gift to you, I present you this blog site. A site to share our memories.

Happy Anniversary Dear

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twinkle winks
at |12:00 AM|

Song Dedication
| Monday, October 24, 2005

AT THE BEGINNING
Donna Lewis and Richard Marx


We were strangers, starting out on a journey
Never dreaming, what we'd have to go through
Now here we are, I'm suddenly standing
At the beginning with you

No one told me, I was going to find you
Unexpected, what you did to my heart
When I lost hope
You were there to remind me
This is the start

And life is a road and I wanna keep goin'
Love is a river I wanna keep flowin'
Life is a road now and forever wonderful journey
I'll be there when the world stops turning
I'll be there when the storm is through
In the end I want to be standing
At the beginning with you

We were strangers, on a crazy adventure
Never dreaming, how our dreams would come true
Now here we stand, unafraid of the future
At the beginning with you

And life is a road and I wanna keep goin'
Love is a river I wanna keep flowin'
Life is a road now and forever wonderful journey
I'll be there when the world stops turning
I'll be there when the storm is through
In the end I want to be standing
At the beginning with you

Knew there was somebody somewhere
I need love in the dark
Now I know my dream will live on
I've been waiting so long
Nothing is going to tear us apart

And life is a road and I wanna keep goin'
Love is a river I wanna keep flowin'
Life is a road now and forever wonderful journey
I'll be there when the world stops turning
I'll be there when the storm is through
In the end I want to be standing
At the beginning with you

Life is a road and I wanna keep goin'
Love is a river I wanna keep flowin' on
Starting out on a journey

And life is a road and I wanna keep goin'
Love is a river I wanna keep flowin'

In the end I want to be standing
At the beginning
With you 

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twinkle winks
at |11:55 PM|

Thanks
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I would like to thank Weihong for helping me with my first blog and kindly share his web skills with me. He has been patiently enduring my millions and millions of questions on how to do this and that in creating this blog.

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twinkle winks
at |11:45 PM|